STAY AT HOME MOMS MAKE REAL MONEY WORKING FROM HOME! (SITES THAT HONESTLY WORK)

  I HAVE SEARCHED ONLINE NUMEROUS TIMES LOOKING FOR A WAY TO WORK FROM HOME FOR YEARS AND TO MY DISMAY, EVERYTHING SEEMED TO BE A SCAM. I HAVE  A FEW POINTS AND TIPPERS ABOUT WORKING FROM HOME THAT YOU MAY NOT HAVE KNOWN ABOUT AND WAYS TO NOT GET CAUGHT UP IN SCAMS.

#1. IF IT ASKS FOR MONEY FIRST ...MOST LIKELY ITS A SCAM!!!
     ANY SITE THAT YOU USE RUN IT THROUGH THE BETTER BUISNESS  BUREAU FIRST OR A SITE I FOUND CALLED "SCAMADVISOR.COM" THAT IS LEGIT AND WILL INFORM YOU OF THE RISKS OF THE SITE...OTHERS PEOPLES OPINION OF THE SITE AND WHERE THE SITE ORIGINATED FROM


#2.ALOT OF THE SITES REQUIRE PARTICIPATION IN 3RD PARTY  SITES AND ASK FOR PERSONAL INFO AND ALL ARE NOT LEGIT BUT IF YOU DO ACCEPT A *FREE OFFER THAT ASKS FOR CREDIT CARD INFO  MAKE SURE YOU CANCEL ORDER BEFORE ALLOTED TIME (SUCH AS FREE CREDIT REPORT FROM EQUIFAX WHICH GIVES YOU THE FIRST MONTH FREE AND CHARGES YOU IMMEDIATELY AFTER THE MONTH IS EXPIRED)


#3. KEEP A SEPARATE EMAIL ADDRESS  FOR ALL OFFERS TO AVOID SPAM ,3RD PARTY OFFERS THAT SLIDE BY AND IF AT ALL POSSIBLE KEEP A PREPAID DEBIT CARD (MOST ACCEPT VISA) FROM A LOCAL DRUG STORE(SUCH AS CVS,WALGREENS AND WALMART  TO PARTICIPATE IN OFFERS THAT DO REQUIRE CREDIT CARD INFO.

ACTUAL SITES I'VE USED THAT WORKS AND ACTUALLY PAYS:
* VINDALE RESEARCH  - ACTUALLY PAYS OUT CHECKS IN THE MAIL THAT YOU CAN OPT TO RECEIVE CHECK BY CHECK OR LET THEM ACCUMULATE TO A LARGER SUM.  link: http://www.tryvindale.com/VP2a08Vd
 
*AMERICAN CONSUMER OPINION- THIS SITE IS ACTUALL BASED IN ARLINGTON,TEXAS AND ALTHOUGH THE SURVEYS CAN BE TAKEN ONLINE THE ALSO HAVE AN ONSITE LOCATION. IT PAYS CASH ON SITE AND CHECKS ONLINE.  http://www.acop.com/

*GLOBAL TEST MARKET-THIS SITE YOU EARN POINTS PER SURVEY AND WHEN YOU REACH 1,000 SURVEY POINTS THEY SEND A CHECK FOR $50 AND THE MORE YOU TAKE AND QUALIFY FOR THE MORE THE PAY. https://www.globaltestmarket.com/recruitment/join.php


*FORSEE.COM-MARKETING COMPANY I HAVENT TRIED BUT HAVE TAKEN SURVEYS FOR THROUGH OTHER TRUSTED SITES. http://www.foresee.com

THERE IS OTHER RESEARCH COMPANIES THAT WILL SEND YOU A HANDHELD SCANNER TO USE WHEN SHOPPING THAT PAYS CASH BUT I DIDNT QUALIFY IN MY AREA.


WORK FROM HOME SITES :
  THESE SITES ARE COMPANIES THAT YOU CAN BECOME AN INDEPENDENT CONSULTANT AND MAKE MONEY FROM HOME. ONLY THING ABOUT THESE SITES ARE THEY ARE OVERRATED CAUSE EVERYONES DOING THE SO I WOULDNT ADVISE THEM UNLESS YOU HAVE TIE,EXTRA MONEY (CAUSE MOST ASK FOR 100-250 START UP KIT FEES AND IF YOURE NOT SPONTANEOUS ENOUGH THE ITEMS ARE HARD TO SALE AND LEAVE YOU IN DEBT.

MARYKAY-  https://applications.marykayintouch.com/Login/

AVON- http://www.avon.com/

SLUMBERPARTIES- http://www.slumberparties.com/

AMBIT ENERGY- http:ambitenergy.com/start-a-business/

ITS JUST ME "2013 BLACKOUT REVOLUTION

THIS ACTUALLY MEANS SOMETHING TO ME! LETS START THE "ITS JUST ME 2013 "BLACKOUT" REVOLUTION"....LETS STAND UP,ONE WORLD ONE VOICE AND SHOUT PROUDLY "ITS OKAY TO BE ME!" THE BLACK N WHITE IS MORE THAN COLORS...IT SMUDGES THE COLOR OF INDIFFERENCE,IT MAKES YOU BEAUTIFUL IN ALL YOUR RUGGED CLARITY,ITS SIMPLE AND ONLY DIVIDED BY ITS OWN CONTRASTS,WITHOUT THE MAKEUP AND FRILLS AND NAMEBRANDS, THROW ON YOUR BEANIE AND SCARF UNBOUND AND "BLACKOUT" THESE STEREOTYPES...RATHER YOURE BLACK,WHITE,CATHOLIC,ASIAN,PUERTO RICAN, HISPANIC,INDIAN,SMALL,MORMON,SHORT,SKINNY,RIDIN SPINNERS,SKATEBOARDERS,PIANIST,ARTISTS,NONDENOMINATION,BUDDHIST,BROKE,TALL,SICK,HEALTHY,SMART,HOMELESS,MILLIONARES....LETS DO AWAY WITH COMMERCIALISM . WHATS THE WORLD COMING TO? AN IDIOM OR A QUESTION THAT REALLY NEEDS AN ANSWER? REPOST IF YOU AGREE (***DONT FORGET TO POST YOUR BLACK AND WHITE PROFILE PICS***)

MINI SPA DAY WITH THE MINI DIVAS(MAKING THE BEST OF YOUR WEEKENDS)

CANT BEAT EM", JOIN 'EM!

  WHEW! MY DAY IS FINALLY OVER WITH. THE KIDS HAVE PRETTY MUCH RAN ME RAGGED AND THOUGH I LOVE HAVING SOMETHING TO DO....ID RATHER IT NOT BE RUNNING AND YELLING AT KIDS ALL DAY. THE WEEKEND HAS STARTED OFF PRETTY DESCENT. THIS MORNING WE DECIDED TO HAVE "SPA DAY" AT THE WILLIAMS RESIDENCE. :) I TREATED THE GIRLS TO OATMEAL FACIALS, WASH AND SETS, MINI MANI\PEDIS,PARRAFIN WAX TREATMENTS ON THEIR FEET AND JUST RELAXED AND LISTENED TO ZEN MUSIC ON MY NEW  AROMA THERAPY MACHINE WITH THE DIFFERENT MEDITATION SOUNDS. THE GIRLS HAD A BLAST AND SO DID I. MY SON JAYDEN WASNT QUITE SURE WHAT TO DO WITH HIMSELF BUT HE SPLASHED IN THE FOOT SPA ALONG WITH EVERYONE ELSE WITH A LITTLE ASSISTANCE FROM HIS BIG SISTERS. I WRAPPED THEM ALL UP IN TURBAN HEAD WRAPS WHILE LAYED BACK LETTING THEIR DEEP CONDITIONING TREATMENTS SET IN WHILE SIPPING HOT COCOA. OVERALL GREAT DAY AND EVEN BETTER NOW THAT THEIR LITTLE HEADS ARE RESTING.

KIDS DO THE DARNDEST THINGS! LITTLE MOMENTS THAT MAKE YOU SMILE...

I was helping my 6 year old,Miracle, with her 1st grade math last night and it was asking her to circle the groups of animals that had more than the other groups and with each problem i began to notice everytime she circled a group she put a dark dot on the line at the end of each circle. When i asked " why do you keep putting dots after you circle them?" she says innocently "SO THEY DONT GET OUT!".....I LAUGHED SO HARD I ALMOST PEED MYSELF.

                                                                                                                                                                

SPICE IT UP!

JUST BECAUSE YOURE A SINGLE MOM DOESN'T MEAN YOU HAVE TO DRESS THE PART LOL. FOR A LONG TIME I WOULD WISH THAT I COULD GET MY HAIR AND NAILS DONE OR EVEN A FULL BLOWN OLD SCHOOL.. "JENNY JONES" MAKEOVER..BUT COULD NEVER AFFORD TO BUY THE "IN BRAND" HIGHLY EXPENSIVE MAKE UPS AND TOP TRENDING CLOTHING. NOW YOU CAN LOOK LIKE THE STYLISH DIVA YOUVE ALWAYS DREAMED OF BEING WITHOUT SPENDING KIMORA LEE SIMMONS (I ENVY YOU GIRL!) KINDA MONEY. SO THIS IS THE SPOT WHERE I WILL BE INCLUDING HOW- TO VIDEOS ON DIFFERENT MAKE-UP TECHNIQUES, TRENDY BUT FRUGAL CLOTHING HOT SPOTS (FOR YOU AND THE KIDS), EASY TO FOLLOW AND FASHIONABLE INSTRUCTIONS ON  CHILDRENS HAIR STYLES ,NAILS,HAIR ACCESSORIES,HOW-TO MAKE JEWELRY AND MUCH MORE FOR A FRACTION OF THE PRICE USING THINGS YOU HAVE AT HOME. THIS IS MY FIRST HOW-TO VIDEO THE QUALITY IS KIND OF POOR AND I SMACK MY LIPS QUIT OFTEN BUT YOU GET THE POINT...LOL

FUN FACEPAINT

HERES A SIMPLE WAY TO MAKE FACE PAINT AT HOME  (WITH SUPERVISION) TO USE AT BIRTHDAY PARTIES OR JUST BEING SILLY WITH THE KIDS ON A WEEKEND.JUST FOLLOW THESE EASY DIRECTIONS.
TOOLS NEEDED:
1 BOX OF CORNSTARCH
WATER
FOOD COLORING
COLD CREAM
MUFFIN TIN

PREPARATION:
1.IN EACH CUP OF THE MUFFIN TIN MIX:
 1 TEASPOON OF CORN STARCH
1/2 TEASPOON OF WATER
1/2 TEASPOON OF COLD CREAM
COUPLE DROPS OF FOOD COLORING

2.STIR EACH CUP WITH DIFFERENT STIRER(OR TOOTHPICK) OR CLEAN STIRRING UTENSIL BEFORE MIXING EACH COLOR 

3.ENJOY! ***FOR MORE FUN I USUALLY PIN MY HAIR UP AND ALLOW THE CHILDREN TO TAKE TURNS AND PRACTICE ON ME!***

FREEBIES FOR YOUR "BESTIES"

  IF YOUR CHILDREN ARE ANYTHING LIKE MINE ,THEY HAVE ALOT OF BUILT UP ENERGY AND NEED AN OUTLET THE SAME AS WE DO AS PARENTS. I TRY TO MAKE IT A POINT TO SAY YES AS OFTEN AS POSSIBLE BECAUSE FOR THE LONGEST I HAD BECAME USED TO SAYING "NO" FOR LACK OF FUNDS OR TRANSPORTATION.  AN EXTENSIVE SEARCH OF THE WEB AND I CAME ACROSS QUITE A FEW FREE OFFERS. AFTER TESTING A FEW I DECIDED TO SHARE WHAT IVE FOUND SO HERES A FEW SITES YOU CAN LOOK UP AND PLACES TO GO FOR ABSOLUTELY FREE! (CERTAIN QUALIFICATIONS MAY APPLY SUCH AS AGE,LOCATION,AND LOW-INCOME FAMILIES) 

BOYS AND GIRLS CLUB  OF AMERICA (AGES 6 -18)
***IF YOU HAVE AMERIGROUP MEDICAID FOR YOUR CHILDREN YOUR KIDS ARE QUALIFIED FOR FREE MEMBERSHIP. 
**CHILDREN WITH PARENTS IN THE MILITARY ALSO RECEIVE FREE MEMBERSHIP.

THE BOYS AND GIRLS CLUB ALSO PROVIDES TRANSPORTATION FROM YOUR CHILDS SCHOOL(DEPENDING ON LOCATION) .
IT IS OPEN FROM M-F  FROM 3PM-8 PM FOR SCHOOL AGE CHILDREN.

www.bgca.org


TARRANT COUNTY PUBLIC LIBRARIES ARE AWESOME!
  EVERY PUBLIC LIBRARY OFFERS MULTIPLE PROGRAMS FOR TEENS AND SCHOOLAGE CHILDREN. CENTRAL FORT WORTH AND ARLINGTON,TX LIBRARIES ARE FILLED WITH THESE EXCITING PROGRAMS AND WHATS BEST IS LIBRARY CARDS ARE FREE ALONG WITH THE RENTAL OF MOVIES AND KIDS AUDIO CDS WITH BOOKS THAT COME IN SETS. HERES A FEW PROGRAMS THEY PROVIDE:

KIDS CORNER (STORYTIME WITH A LIVE READER)
PUPPET SHOWS ON SELECT DAYS
FAMILY MOVIE NIGHT (EVERY 2ND SAT, AT CENTRAL FTW LIBRARY)
TEENS SCENE 
ACTIVITY DAY


http://fortworthtexas.gov/library
http://arlingtontexas.gov/library

or call your local library


DOLLY PARTONS' IMAGINATION LIBRARY (FREE KIDS BOOKS BY MAIL) http://usa.imaginationlibrary.com/register_my_child.php

THIS PROGRAMS HELPS CHILDREN BY:

providing them with the gift of a specially selected book each month by mailing high quality, age-appropriate books directly to their homes.
  JUST GO TO THE SITE. CLICK REGISTER MY CHILD TAB.CHECK ELGIBILITY(ONLY CERTAIN AREA CODES ARE ACCEPTED AND I KNOW FOR SURE 76105(EAST FORT WORTH) AREA AND 76010 (ARLINGTON)AREA CODES ARE QUALIFIED).DOWNLOAD PDF FORM.MAIL IT IN. ***BOOKS SHOULD COME BY-MAIL WITHIN 3 WEEKS


ARLINGTON ACTIVITIES:

https://online.activecommunities.com/arlingtontx/Activities/ActivitiesAdvSearch.asp
http://www.zvents.com/arlington-tx/events/free+events



KIDS EAT FREE!!!!
JUST BECAUSE YOU MAY HAVE MULTIPLE CHILDREN OR FEW FUNDS DOESNT MEAN YOU CANT TREAT YOUR KIDS AND SELF EVERY BLUE MOON. THE PROBLEM IS NEVER KNOWING WHERE TO GO WHEN YOU DO HAVE FREE TIME AND A LITTLE SPENDING CASH. WHY NOT PAY FOR YOURSELF....AND YOUR KIDS EAT FREE??? HMMM...SOUNDS LIKE A GREAT IDEA RIGHT?DON'T BE DEFEATED AND RETIRED TO THE HOUSE.GO GET OUT AND DO SOMETHING FOR A CHANCE WHILE STAYING WITHIN BUDGET.
COMPILATION OF RESTARAUNTS WHERE KIDS EAT FREE OR DISCOUNTED CERTRAIN DAYS:
BELOW ARE GREAT WEBSITES I USE FREQUENTLY ESPECIALLY METROPLEX BABY THAT PINPOINT THIOSE GREAT SPOTS THAT OUR CHILDREN FRIENDLY AND SAVES!!!
http://www.metroplexbaby.com/ParentGuides/Kids-Eat-Free-Dallas-Fort-Worth.htm
http://www.kidsmealdeals.com/search/kidseatfree/Arlington+Texas/any/

  I WILL BE POSTING MORE PLACES AS I FIND THEM BUT HOPEFULLY I'VE GAVE YOU A START ON FREEDOM AND FUN AS A SINGLE DIVA MOM.

HOMEMADE PLAY DOUGH RECIPE FOR KIDS

YOU DONT HAVE TO RUN TO THE STORE EVERYTIME YOUR KIDS PLAYDOUGH  DRIES OUT. JUST FOLLOW THIS SIMPLE RECIPE AND SAVE BIG BUCKS AND HAVE FUN WHILE YOU DO IT!
INGREDIENTS AND TOOLS FOR EACH COLOR:
1 CUP OF WHITE FLOUR
1/4 CUP SALT
1 TABLESPOON OF VEGETABLE OIL
1 CUP OF WATER
2 TEASPOONS OF PREFERED FOOD COLORING
2 TABLESPOONS OF CREAM OF TARTAR
PLASTIC BAG OR AIRTIGHT CONTAINER
1 MEDIUM POT

PREPARATION:
1.MIX FLOUR,SALT,AND CREAM OF TARTAR IN A MEDIUM POT.
2.ADD WATER,FOOD COLORING AND OIL

PARENTS ONLY*
DIRECTIONS:
1.STIR OVER MEDIUM HEAT FOR 3-5 MINUTES.IF IT LOOKS HORRIBLE DONT PANIC,IT WILL TURN INTO DOUGH! LOL
2.WHEN THE MIXTURE FORMS A BALL IN THE MIDDLE OF THE POT,TURN THE STOVE OFF ANDLET IT COOL. THEN TAKE IT OUT OF THE POT AND PUT IT ON A FLOURED SURFACE. HERES THE FUN PART....ALLOW THE CHILDREN TO SQUISH IT AND PUNCH IT AROUND A BIT TO KNEAD IT.(MY BABIES LOVE IT!)
3. WHEN YOURE DONE,PUT IUT IN THE BAG OR CONTAINER TO STORE.

**YOU CAN MAKE AS MANY COLORS AS YOU LIKE JUST REFER TO THIS CHART FOR COLOR MIXTURE.
RED+YELLOW=ORANGE
YELLOW+BLUE=GREEN
BLUE+RED=PURPLE
A MIXTURE OF ANY 3 COLORS WILL MAKE BROWN
ANY 3 WITH MORE BLUE WILL BE BLACK
MORE OF THE LIGHTER COLOR WITH LESS DROPS OF THE DARKER MAKES THE LIGHTER COLORS .

HOPE YOU ENJOY!
~MS.MARIA ANTOINETTE WILLIAMS

DAILY AFFIRMATION FOR HER JAN.6,2013

SHE KNOWS THAT " THE LORD SEARCHES EVERY HEART AND UNDERSTANDS EVRY MOTIVE BEHIND THE THOUGHT"(1 CHRONICLES 28:9) BUT SHE IS NOT AFRAID. FOR SHE TRUSTS,NOT IN HER OWN HOLINESS,BUT IN THE LORD,"BEING CONFIDENT OF THIS,THAT HE WHO BEGAN A GOOD WORK IN YOU WILL CARRY IT ON TO COMPLETION UNTIL THE DAY OF CHRIST JESUS" PHILLIPIANS 1:6)

 JAN.6,2013- SINGLE MOM....YOU HOLD YOUR HEAD UP AND YOU HOLD IT PROUDLY!. ITS A NEW DAY AND A GREAT ONE TO BE ALIVE. WITH THE KIDS CONSTANT NEEDS AND RESPONSIBILITIES STACKED HIGH YOU TAKE A BREATH...ROLL OUT OF BED AND GREET TODAY WITH NEW BOLDNESS. HAD IT NOT HAVE BEEN FOR YESTERDAY TODAY WOULDN'T BE TODAY. TAKE LIFE BY ITS REINS AND START YOU A LIST. YES...I SAID A LIST. I FIND THAT IF I WRITE DOWN ALL OF MY GOALS FOR THE YEAR THEN BREAK THEM DOWN INTO SHORTER TERM GOALS,EACH DAY START OUT A TODO LIST OF  WHAT THINGS YOU CAN DO TODAY EXAMPLE: IF YOUR GOAL IS TO GET A HOUSE BY NEXT YEAR...A SHORT TERM GOAL SHOULD REINFORCE IT IE; PUT $20 IN YOUR ACCOUNT TODAY AND PAY YOURSELF ONCE A WEEK. ALTHOUGH $20 DOLLARS DOESNT SEEM LIKE ALOT...AFTER 6 MONTHS  OF SAVING YOU HAVE A LITTLE OVER A DEPOSIT)...IF THAT STILL SEEMS LIKE TOO MUCH PULL OUT A REAL ESTATE PAPER OR GREENSHEET AND AT LEAST CIRCLE OFF A FEW OPTIONS. BREAKING DOWN YOUR GOALS INTO SMALLER MORE ATTAINABLE ONES GIVES THE FEELING OF LESS OVERWHELMING STRESS...AND A SENSE OF ACCOMPLISHMENT WHEN YOUVE TICKED OFF THESE SMALLER TASKS ON YOUR TO DO LIST OF LIFE.

        MARIA'S  AFFIRMATION: YOU ARE WORTH MORE THAN WHAT CREDIT YOU OR ANYONE ELSE CAN GIVE YOU OR YOURSELF. YOU DON'T NEED ANYONES HANDOUTS TODAY. YOU ARE NOT A STATISTIC.YOU ARE SINGLE.SINGLE DOESNT MEAN THAT YOU AREE LONELY OR NEEDY.TODAY SINGLE FOR YOU MEANS "GIVING YOUR HEART A BREAK UNTIL YOU'RE READY TO LOVE AGAIN.TODAY YOU CAN LOVE YOURSELF.TODAY YOU CAN MAKE THINGS HAPPEN FOR YOURSELF YOU CAN BUILD YOUR OWN FOUNDATIONS....STARTING ONE SMALL STEP AT A TIME.

"THE ONE" BY MARIA WILLIAMS (POETRY)

IVE SEARCHED fOR YEARS AND BEEN THROUGH ENOUGH
;LOOKING FOR A LOVE THAT COULDNT BE DUPLICATED OR BLUFFED.
 LET DOWN aFTER LET DOWN aND MANY TEARFUL LONELY NIGHTS 
AND THEN FEBRUARY 24th GOD PLACED TRUE LOVE IN MY SIGHT.
 HE LOVES ME INSPITE OF MY FAULTS WITHOUT CONDITIONS;
TO HIM I CAN DO NO WRONG;
HE DOESNT CARE ABOUT MY MOOD SWINGS OR HOW IM DRESSED
 HE CLINGS ON HOLDING STRONG.
 HE SHOWS ME HOW MUCH HE NEEDS ME AND TO HIM I CANT BE REPLACED;
 MANY WOMAN COME TO SEE HIM BUT HE ONLY SEEKS MY FACE; 
HE HATES TO sEE ME CRY AND JUST LIVES TO HEAR MY PRAISE.
HE HOLDS ME TIGHTER THAN aNY MAN EVER HAS AND WANTS TO PROTECT ME
 AND REASSURES ME OF BETTER DAYS. 
HIS SMILE IS PAST CONTAGIOUS AND
 HES STALKY AND HANDSOME AS CAN BE;
HUMOROUS WITH A CHARM OF HIS OWN
 BUT REMINDS ME SO MUCH OF ME. 
GODS LIGHT SHINES FROM HIS EYES 
 MY GUARDIAN aNGEL IN DISGUISE;
I KNOW HES dESTINED fOR GREATNESS
 CAUSE MY GOD DONT TELL NO LIES.
 EVERYTHING I EVER SEARCHED FOR IVE FOUND IN MY SON;
NO MAN COULD EVER REPLACE HIM; 
IVE FINALLY FOUND "THE ONE"            ~BY MARIA ANTOINETTE WILLIAMS

DEDICATED TO MY ONLY SON JAYDEN NICHOLAE SANDERS

"SECOND PLACE"... POEM TO MY HUSBAND GIRLFRIEND

TO BE THE "OTHER wOMAN" THERE NEEDS 2 BE A MAN.TO BE THE BACKUP THERE HAS2 BE A 1ST PLAN.TO BE A MISTRESS MEANS THERE HAS 2 BE A WIFE.IF I STILL WANTED HIM IT COULD BE YA LIFE. YOU CANT HAVE HIS HEART,IT DONT BELONG TO YOU.HE WILL NEVER BE YA SUPERMAN OR HERO OR KNIGHT.HE WILL NEVER BE YOUR ALL.YOULL NEVER BE HIS ONLY CUZ AS LONG AS WERE STILL MARRIED IT WILL NEVER BE RIGHT.IT ISNT UR PLACE 2 COMFORT HIM WHATEVER WERE GOING THROUGH...IF ITS IN GODS PLAN WE'll WORK IT OUT LIKE WE ALWAYS DO.IT ISNT UR PLACE 2 EVALUATE WHAT IVE DONE TO HIM OR WHAT I WILL DO aND AS LONG AS WERE STILL MARRIED THERES NO ROOM FOR YOU.YOU wILL NEVER MEET HIS KIDS,HE'LL NEVER BRING YOU HOME.HE MUSTNT HAVE TOLD U EVERYTHING ABOUT ME CUZ IF HE DID YOUD WATCH UR TONE.WEVE BOTH DONE HURTFUL tHINGS TO EACH OTHER,HES NO BETTER THAN I.HE MOVED HIMSELF FROM HIS WIFE N KIDS...EVER WONDER wHY?ANYMAN THAT WILL LEAVE HIS OWN KIDS WILL eVENTUALLY LEAVE YOU TOO.WHEN IT ALL BOILS DOWN YOURE JUST a LONGTERM SCREW.HE MAKeS ME OUT tO BE A MAD HATTER BUT yOURE A HAD MATTER...USED aND ABUSED LIKE D***  BEATERS AND JERGEN SPLATTERS.THEY SAY TIME IS MONEY AND YOURE MESSING WITH MINE BUT I DONT NEED ANOTHER HOUR OR CHILD SUPPORT CHECK TO DO WHAT HE HASNT BEEN FOR MINE. SO wHILE YOURE FEELING YASELF AND TRYING TO PLEA YA CASE JUST KNOW HES TRICKING MY KIDS MONEY WITH YOU,TAKING OUT THEIR MOUTHS TO FEED YOUR FAT FACE. REMORSE FROM a TRIFLING HOME WRECKER I DONT EXPECT tO SEE a TRACE...BUT PLEASE REMEMBER THEIR HAD TO BE A FIRST LOVE AND YOU COME NO WHERE NEAR SECOND PLACE.

ME ~ "THE GOOD ~VS~BAD ...AN HONEST LOOK AT MYSELF

   

       I figured alot of people ask me things about myself so im going to list every trait rather good or bad.every like and dislike and so forth to keep down redundancy. My names Maria Antoinette. I am a 29 year old single mother. I was born August.7th. I am your typical but unpredictable Leonian woman. I am legally married but am not with my husband and we live in 2 seperate states.  I am working towards filing for divorce for the 2nd time and am just waiting on paternity tests of my youngest child,MY sON. I have 5 children. 4 GIRLS AND 1 BOY from 4 fathers. None of my childrens fathers are in their lives and though this is disappointing I hold my own pretty well.My buissness name is "The basket CASE OF FORT worth ". Im into gifting and accessories and everything i make is hand crafted. I also draw freehand...i wanna learn to do tattoos,i cut and fade and also braid mens hair. I do designs and have all my equiptment at home. I do women and childrens hair also. I design and sew my own costumes,lingerie and costumes, i do face painting for childrens events,im into photography and modeling...used to model for church...i am a preachers kid. My mothers a pastor. I am very much into music and write and produce my own music...yes guys i do make beats on all software and programs. I love old school cars and working on them and tricking them out. I reupholster and embroider car seat covers and am into interior design and decor. I love video games and im the ultimate gamer chick...i play EVERYTHING from Madden, Call of duty , UFC,FIGHTING gAMES,SHOOTING gAMES...YOU NAME IT. I aM A DIE HARD XBOX360 FAN. Im into poetry and the arts. I love camping and fishing and being outdoors pointing i am not bitter behind it. I was born in Detroit,raised on the east of ftworth and now live in arlington by the Cowboys stadium. I live alone with all of my children in a spacious 2 bedroom apartment. Although i am not working full time i do own my own legit buissness. You can find me on facebook,twitter,manta,indeed.com  I am a frugal woman so it doesnt take much to make me happy but i do pray that with my persistants i will obtain the greater things in life. Im into fashion..love to dress and wear make up. I am a natural beauty but love to accessorize so if you dont like women that wear fake things(hair,lashes,nails) i maynot be for you.. My favorite colors is red.black and gold and my home is furnished as such. Im a clean freak and good hygiene is a must. I love to read all sorts of literature when i have time. Scary movies, comedy and action is what i like...in that order. I am a self proclaimed comedian so if you dont have a sense of humor im not the one for you.... MY GOOD TRAITS: IM GENEROUS,NOBLE,HONEST TO A DEFAULT,MUST SPEAK wHATS ON MY MIND AT aLL TIMES,TEND TO BE N THE SPOTLIGHT IN EVERYTHING I dO wITHOUT EFFORT, i strive FOR PERSONAL INDEPENDENCE,GIVE OF MYSELF TOTALLY ONCE I OPEN MYSELF UP tO YOU,iM LIVELY AND SPONTANEOUS,LIKE tO dO tHINGS IN tHE sPARE OF THE MOMENT,FUNLOVING,SINCERE,LIKE FIGHTING FOR a CAUSE! I HAVE A NEED TO BE ENTHUSIASTIC AND INSPIRED TO KEEP MY VITALITY INTACT,DONT LIKE BEING IGNORED, DONT LIKE DULL MOMENTS OR eNVIRONMENTS, LOVE TO tALK,CANT STAND a PERSON wHO CANT HOLD a LIVE CONVERSATION(IN A DAYS TIME I CAN MAKE U FEEL LIKE YOUVE BEEN KNOWING ME FOREVER). MY LOVE FOR fUN IS ONLY OUTDONE BY THE ROMANTIC IN ME. IM a FOOL FOR LOVE AND ONCE IN LOVE CAN SPOIL MY MAN IN eVERY ASPECT,IM a FAITHFUL LOVER wHEN tOTALLY PLEASED, IM FOREVER OPTIMISTIC SO ITS aLMOST IMPOSSIBLE FOR ME TO SEE ANY PROBLEM aS INSURMOUNTABLE, I HAVE NO TIME FOR eXCUSES ESP. WHEN IM MAKING IT WITH 5 KIDS ALONE aND PROVIDING ALL OF OUR NEEDS BYMYSELF. I LOVE SINCERE COMPLIMENTS aND aM TURNED OFF BY IMMEDIATE VULGARIY UNLESS I PROVOKE IT. LIKE DONT ADD ME THEN LET "WHEN YOU GONna let me ..blah blah whatever...fill in the blanks."THE LISTS OF NASTINESS IVE HEARD IS CRAZY AND ENDLESS. REGARDLESS, ITS aN AUTOMATIC TURN OFF. MY LOVE OF KIDS AND BEING IN tOUCH WITH MY INNER cHILD MAKES ME A NATURAUL FUN PARENT. MY TUBES ARENT TIED. (FOR MY FUTURE HUSBAND). I AM STRONG AND RESILIANT AND HAVE BEEN tOO MANY tIMES CLOSE TO DEATH. I have a background which is why im self employed. I have been in the juvenile system in TYC until i was 21 and overcame that also, I aM PASSIONATE ABOUT MY LIFE GOALS DREAMS FAITH IN GOD AND FAMILY, I aM LOYAL TO aNYONE I CONSIDER IN MY CIRCLE BUT ONCE I HAVE BEEN HURT OR BETRAYED BY YOU I MAY FORGIVE BUT I WONT FORGET AND ONCE YOURE dISMISSED fROM MY LIFE YOURE GONE FOR GOOD. MY BORN CHARM LIES IN BEING aBLE TO sAY NO TO EXACTLY WHAT I wANT. I KNOW MY PLACE AS a WOMAN .NOW, FOR THE "BAD" STUFF....THESE ARE THINGS I KNOW aND HAVE BEEN TOLD ABOUT MYSELF... IVE BEEN TOLD THAT IM TOO BLUNT AND HONEST tO wHERE I COME OFF AS RUDE AT TIMES AND HAVE NO REGARD fOR FEELINGS WHEN I SPEAK MY OPINIONS. I DISLIKE REPETITION AND CANT STAND WHEN I HAVE TO aSK a   QUESTION MORE THAN TWICE...BY tHEN IM LIKE "NEVER MIND"., IVE BEEN TOLD I CAN BE TOO DOMINEERING aND POSSESSIVE,OVERLY JEALOUS IF I FEEL IM NOT GETTING ENOUGH aTTENTION, SOME SAY I HOG THE SPOTLIGHT, ITS HARD TO GET a WORD IN IF I fEEL YOURE BORING ME.  I EXPECT tHE BEST BUT PREPARE FOR THE WORST CAUSE OF PAST EXPERIENCES SO IT LEAVES ME CANCELLING OUT ANY MAN WHO MAY EVEN a LITTLE REMIND ME OF PAST RELATIONSHIPS, IM NOT ALWAYS WILLING tO TRY NEW THINGS THAT dID NOT SPRING FROM MY OWN FANTASIES, I HAVE A TENDENCY TO CLING TO BAD RELATIONSHIPS CAUSE MY PRIDE WONT ALLOW ME TO ADMIT IVE MADE a MISTAKE, I CAN BE VERY DEMANDING,STUBBORN aND IMPULSIVE, I DONT THINK tHINGS ALL THE wAY THROUGH OR HOW THEY MAY EFFECT aNYONE ELSE BUT MY CIRCLE. IF I HAVE ANY ROOM TO BELIEVE YOU ARE NOT BEING TOTALLY HONEST WITH ME OR YOU gIVE ME YOUR WORD aND BREAK IT FOR ANY REASON MY HEART WILL SHUT DOWN aND I BECOMe VERY SNIDE,SMART MOUTHED AND WHATEVER BRICKS IVE PULLED FROM MY WALL GETS IMMEDIATELY THROWN BACK UP. I HAVE a HARD TIME TRUSTING MENS SINCERITY. I HAVE ABANDONMENT AND SELF ESTEEM ISSUES. I FEEL MOST MEN JUST WANT MY BODY AND WILL SAY OR DO aNYTHING TO GET IN WHERE THEY fIT IN. IM NARCUSSISTIC OR aT LEAST IVE BEEN TOLD.   

MY IDEA TYPE OF GUY

I am not a picky person but God said if i ask in specifics he will provide in specifics so here it is.... I WANT A HANDSOME,PHYSICALLY FIT,MATURE GOD FEARING MAN WHO PUTS GOD FIRST IN aLL tHAT HE DOES FOR HIMSELF AND HIS FAMILY THAT UNDERSTANDS WHAT IT MEANS TO HAVE A RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD,PRAYS AND TITHES. I wANT A MAN WHO DOESNT HAVE KIDS ALL OVER TOWN OR BABY MAMA DRAMA THAT WANTS a FAMILY,WANTS CHILDREN AND LOVES MINE LIKE THEY WERE HIS OWN. I wANT a MAN WHO fEELS I AM WORTH tHE EFFORT AND PATIENCE IT tAKES TO HANDLE BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH ME. I WANT A MAN THAT MAKES ME fORGET ABOUT MY PAST RELATIONSHIP BECAUSE OF tHE AWESOMENESS aND FULFILLMENT OF BEING WITH HIM. I WANT a ROMANTIC AND A BUFF NOT A THUG. HE WILL BE FAITHFUL AND MAKE ME FEEL IM THE ONLY WOMAN FOR HIM. HE RESPECTS BOUNDARIES AND TRUSTS ME. WORKS FOR WHAT HE WANTS AND HAS NO TIME FOR EXCUSES. HES PERSISTENT IN HIS GOALS,WELL EDUCATED aND STILL WANT MORE OUT OF LIFE. HE HAS a SENSE OF HUMOR AND WHEN IM AROUND HIM HE KEEPS ME SMILING.Hes SPONTANEOUS aND FUN LOVING AND IS FINANCIALLY CAPABLE TO JUMP UP aT tHE SPARE OF THE MOMENT AND GO OUT WHEN HES NOT WORKING. HE HAS TIME FOR HIS wOMAN AND EVEN THOUGH HES a WORKING MAN MAKES TIME FOR ME AND BALANCES HOME LIFE,HIS sEX IS AWESOME WITH NO LIMITATIONS.HES PACKING AND LEAVES ME INDEFINITELY sATISFIED. HES sO GOOD I DONT WANNA GO ANYWHERE ELSE CAUSE HES ALL I NEED. HE HAS GOOD CREDIT aND CAN INVEST IN OUR FUTURE. HES NOT ON PAROLE OR PROBATION. HES NOT ON CHILD SUPPORT. HE HANDLES HIS BUISNESS aND dOESNT BLAME "THE MAN" BUT IS aCCOUNTABLE FOR HIS OWN DIRECTION OF DESTINY. HES NOT ALL TALK aND ISNT TALKING ABOUT WHAT HE WANTS TO DO BUT HOW HES IN THE PROCESS OF ACHIEVING THEM. HES EDUCATED aND CAN MATCH WITS. HE HAS ALL HIS TEETH, GROOMED WELL...LOL...HIS FEET DONT STINK AND HE SMELLS INTOXICATING. HES UNSELFISH AND GIVING. HE ISNT sCORNED BY a PAST RELATIONSHIP. HE SHOWS HOW MUCH HE LHE DOESNT STAND ME UP. HE ISNT JEALOUS oR ABUSIVE BUT STANDS UP FOR HIS WOMAN AND CLAIMS HIS aT ALL tIMES. HE DOESNT MIND TRYING NEW THINGS AND AS A MATTER OF FACT HE THRIVES IN BEING VERSATILE AND SEARCHING FOR NEW THINGS TO EVEN SHOW ME. HE DOESNT CARE aBOUT WHAT HE LOOKS LIKE SHOWING AFFECTION IN PUBLIC AND WANTS THE WORLD TO KNOW. HE LOVES MY KIDS AND THEY CANT WAIT FOR HIM tO COME HOME JUST aS BAD aS I CANT. HE TREATS MY gIRLS LIKE PRINCESSES AND MY sON LIKE A PRINCE. HE RAISES MY SON tO RESPECT WOMAN aND eARN HIS KEEPS. HES NOT AFRAID TO SHOW MY BOY LOVE AND wHAT MORE THERE IS TO LIFE....WELL...THATS aLL I CAN THINK OF AT THE MOMENT. HOPE THATS A GOOD DESCRIPTION OF WHAT IM LOOKING FOR.OVES ME...HE ISNT aLL TALK. HES FAITHFUL.TRUTHFUL. HE DOESNT KEEP ME WAITING.HE DOESNT STAND ME UP. HE ISNT JEALOUS oR ABUSIVE BUT STANDS UP FOR HIS WOMAN AND CLAIMS HIS aT ALL tIMES. HE DOESNT MIND TRYING NEW THINGS AND AS A MATTER OF FACT HE THRIVES IN BEING VERSATILE AND SEARCHING FOR NEW THINGS TO EVEN SHOW ME. HE DOESNT CARE aBOUT WHAT HE LOOKS LIKE SHOWING AFFECTION IN PUBLIC AND WANTS THE WORLD TO KNOW. HE LOVES MY KIDS AND THEY CANT WAIT FOR HIM tO COME HOME JUST aS BAD aS I CANT. HE TREATS MY gIRLS LIKE PRINCESSES AND MY sON LIKE A PRINCE. HE RAISES MY SON tO RESPECT WOMAN aND eARN HIS KEEPS. HES NOT AFRAID TO SHOW MY BOY LOVE AND wHAT MORE THERE IS TO LIFE....WELL...THATS MY TYPE OF GUY... :)

Grass is greener syndrome

THIS PAST MONTH IVE BEEN DOING SOME SELF ASSESSING AND LEARNED THAT IF YOU WORRY aBOUT WHAT MIGHT HAVE BEEN AND WHAT MIGHT BE WE HAVE A TENDENCY TO MISS WHAT IS. THE PROBLEM wITH THESE SOCIAL SITES AND SO MUCH fREE LOVE IN THE WORLD IS THAT W/ HAVING SO MANY CHOICES WE BECOME RESTLESS.WE CANT BE CONTENT WITH WHAT WE HAVE OR THE PERSON wHOS GENUINELY INTERESTED BECAUSE sO MANY IS WONDERING ABOUT THE NEXT BIG THING.WE MAKE OURSELVES MISERABLE BY CONSTANTLY THINKING ABOUT THE UNKNOWN IN aN ENDLESS QUEST TO FIND HAPPINESS.THATS WHEN UNHAPPINESS SETS &SPEND OUR TIME FOCUSING ON WHAT wE DONT HAVE RATHER THEN COUNTING OUR BLESSINGS. INSTEAD OF POINTING OUT THE ASSETS WE ARE RELENTLESS aBOUT THE FAULTS N SHORTCOMINGS. WHEN CHOOSING YOUR NEXT MATE WEIGH tHE PROS N CONS.IS THE PERSONS POSTIVE QUALITIES OUTWEIGHING THE NEGATIVE SETBACKS? NOTICE THE FRUITION.

Why most men wont" Settle Down( my rantings )

ALTHOUGH IM CURRENTLY ENJOYING THE BENEFITS OF BEING SINGLE FOR NOW DOESNT MEAN IM NOT HOPING OR WAITING ON tHINGS TO PROGRESS BUT IT SEEMS THAT MOST GUYS ARE TRYING TO sEE WHERE THEY CAN FIT IN TO ENJOY THE BENEFITS ALSO BUT WILL RIDE IT OUT AS LONG AS POSSIBLE WITH NO PLANS OF REALLY BEING SERIOUS OR COMMITIING SO IVE COMPILED MY OWN LIST TO ADDRESS WHERE I MYSELF HAS GONE wRONG AND WHERE I dONT INTEND TO MAKE THE SAME MISTAKES FOr 2013.SO HERE IT IS: 1.YOU KNOW THAT EXPRESSION "WHY BUY THE COW WHEN U CAN HAVE THE MILK FOR FREE". IF a GUY FEELS HE CAN REAP tHE BENEFITS OF BEING A BOYFRIEND W/O CLAIMING THE TITLE THEN WHY WOULD HE? MAKE THINGS CLEAR OF WHAT YOU wANT AND DONT BEND. THERE IS NO COMPROMISING MY HEART AND GOOD PENIS DONT MEAN "LOVE".IF HE WANTS YOU HE WILL WAIT aND RESPECT YOU. tHATS LIKE GOING IN PAPPADEUXS AND TELLING THEM YOU WANNA TRY EVERYTHING ON THE MENU BEFORE YOU DECIDE IF THE CUISINE wAS WORTH THE PURCHASE.UNLESS YOUrE PAYING FOR A SAMPLER PLATE WONT BE NO MEALS LET ALONE AN APPETIZER.MY #2. REASON IVE FOUND IS THAT MOST MEN HAVE A NEGATIVE PERCEPTION OF A COMMITTED RELATIONSHIP....EITHER HE WITNESSED UNHEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS IN THE PAST,PARENTS,T.V. PRTRAYAL ABOUT HOW "NOT PLAYA" IT IS TO COMMIT TO ONE CHICK,SCARED OF WHAT BUDDIES MIGHT THINK AND THEY HAVE CONVINCED THEMSELVES OF ALL THE REASONS WHY THEY CANT BE A ONE WOMAN MAN. AS LONG AS A MAN SAYS "IM NOT REALLY LOOKING FOR NOTHING...JUST WANNA CHILL AND KICK IT"...ONCE THATS BEEN SAID HES MADE IT CLEAR HE DONT WANT yOU AND IVE MADE THE MISTAKE OF GOING ALONG WITH IT TILL I CATCH FEELINGS JUST TO END UP aT SQUARE ONE..."YOU tRIPPIN...I tOLD YOU I WASNT TRYING TO DATE" USUALLY fOLLOWS ALONG WITH aVOIDANCE FOR EVEN PRESSING tHE ISSUE. WONT BE HAPPENING AGAIN.HIS NEGATIVE VIEWS ON RELATIONSHIPS WILL BE a CONSTANT CONFLICT #3.REASON I FEEL MEN WONT COMMIT...LETS FACE IT...MOST MEN JUST WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH OTHER wOMEN. IF HE TALKS aBOUT IT IN tHE FIRST CONVO,COMING IN THE DOOR TALKING ABOUT P*SSY OR AUTOMATICALLY SHOOTS A PENIS PICTURE .ITS AN aUTOMATIC RED FLAG. REGARDLESS OF WHAT POPULAR BELIEF IS ...ALL MEN DO NOT CHEAT. ALL MEN DONT HAVE THE FANTASY OF BEING WITH 2 WOMEN aND WITH THAT BEING SAID I DONT BELIEVE IN a MAN HAVING A FEMALE FRIEND WHILE IN a RELATIONSHIP WITH ME IF I CANT MEET HER. I SHOULD BE YOUR fRIEND,CONFIDANT aND LOVER.NO RESPECTING FAITHFUL MAN WILL eVEN TRY tO CONVINCE YOU OF OTHERWISE UNLESS THEIR TRYING tO KEEP tHE GATE OPEN TO CREEP OUT ,IF HES EVEN STOPPED OR HAVENT ALREADY...HE WILL CHEAT.#4.IVE HAD MEN THAT WOULDNT COMMITT TO ME BECAUSE THEY sEE IM AN OVER ACHIEVER wITH ALOT OF GOALS AND AMBITIONSaND AM CURRENTLY MAKING THEM HAPPEN.IF A GUY DOESNT HAVE MUCH GOING FOR THEMSELVES OR CANT STEP OUT THE BOX TO SEE THE BIG PICTURE THEY GET INTIMIDATED aND SHY aWAY FROM ME FOR FEAR THAT THEY CANT PULL THROUGH ON tHEIR PART.PRIDE IS THE CAUSE.EGOS ARE THE CAUSE. GETTING ON BOARD WITH YOUR OWN DREAMS AND SUPPORTING US IS THE SOLUTION.INTIMIDATION WILL CLOUD YOUR sIGHT ... YOU CANT SEE wHERE YOUD FIT IN YOU CANT COMMIT.THE LAST REASON IS MAYBE HE JUST wASNT THAT INTO yOU IN THE FIRST PLACE AND MAYBE HAD ULTERIOR MOTIVES.HE MAY CARE ABOUT YOU BUT DONT SEE THEMSELVES AS BEING IN LOVE WITH YOU.THERE ISNT a TRUE CONNECTION BUT WHAT IS PROVIDED IS ENOUGH TO KEEP HIM AROUND AND HE MAY BE HOLDING ON FOR ALL THE WRONG rEASONS.ASK YOURSELF IS THIS FAIR TO DRAG  ANYONE aLONG WITH FALSE HOPE WHEN YOU DONT SEE YOURSELF TAKING THAT NEXT STEP..IN CONCLUSION...IF YOU HAD a CHANCE BEFFORE AND DIDNT TAKE IT DONT TRY tO COME BACK IN MY LIFE.SOME PPL DONT REALIZE WHAT THEY COULDVE HAD TILL ITS GONE AND HAD U BEEN PATIENT WITH MY sHORTCOMINGS COULDVE MADE SOMETHInG HAPPEN AND DOESNT MEAN YOURE SUPPOSED TO GET ANOTHER CHANCE JUST BECAUSE A LIGHT BULB WENT OFF IN YOUR HEAD... "SHE COULDVE BEEN MINE" IS AN AFTERTHOUGHT CAUSE WHEN I FINALLY AM OFF THE MARKET THE MAN GOD CHOOSES FOR ME WILL BE IN tOTAL BLISS aND I DESERVE MY HAPPILY EVER AFTER. ~MARIA~

Dead Beat Dads cause and effect

IM TIRED OF HEARING MEN DOWN THE MOTHERS OF THEIR CHILDREN WHEN I CAN aLMOST GUARANTEE THE MAJORITY OF THE MEN tHESE DAYS COULD NOT DO HER JOB ALONE IF YOU tRIED AND STILL BALANCE THE "GOOD STRESS FREE" LIVES YOU tHINK yOURE LIVING.A CHILD NEEDS MORE THAN MONEY TO BE RAISED. THAT MEANS TO SUPPORT UR CHILD PHYSICALLY, MENTALLY,EMOTIONALLY,SPIRITUALLY,SOCIALLY,FINANCIALLY,.BEING THERE FOR EVENTS,BIRTHDAYS,HOLIDAYS,LISTENING TO tHEM,NURTURING THEM,ENCOURAGING THEM,SHOWING THEM LOVE,TEACHInG THEM LESSONS SO tHEY WONT LEARN FROM tHE STREETS,GIVING WILLINGLY AND UNBEGRUNDGINGLY EVERYTHING OF YOURSELF AND THEN SOMEMORE EVEN WHEN YOU CANT FOR YOURSELF,ADDING tO tHEIR LIVES NOT tAKING FROM THEM. ALOT OF MEN fEEL tHEY aRE dOING THAT CHILD a FAVOR BY JUST STAYING OUT THE PICTURE OR BLAMING THEIR ABSCENCE IN A CHILDS LIVES ON THE MOTHERS.DEGRADE THE MOTHERS TO OTHERS WHEN IN ALL ACTUALITY YOURE TO BLAME.DONT GET ME WRONG...ALL MEN aRE NOT BAD PARENTS BUT THEIR IS BECOMING A VAST MAJORITY OF FATHERLESS HOMES THEIR ARE TOO MANY DADS WHO aRE CHOOSING TO DELIBERATELY WALK AWAY FROM tHE TABLE AND FEELS SOCIETY GIVES THEM aN AXCUSE TO FOIST RESPONSIBILITY OFF ON THE WOMEN.MOST CLAIM tO BE DOING "ALL THEY CAN" BY sENDING A CHECK eACH MONTH. SOME EVEN GO tO tHE EXTENT OF AVOIDING WORK JUST TO aVOID STATE ARREARS WHEN IN MOST CASES HAD YOU DONE RIGHT BY THE CHILD IN tHE FIRST PLACE THE SUPPORT COLLECTIONS COULDVE BEEN aVOIDED. I READ A STUDY YESTERDAY ON FATHERLESS HOMES AND WAS VERY SADDENED BY THE STATISTICS. 63% OF YOUTH SUICIDES aRE FROM FATHERLESS HOMES. 90% OF ALL HOMELESS AND RUNAWAYS ARE fROM FATHERLESS HOMES. 85% OF CHILDREN THAT EXHIBIT BEHAVIOR DISORDERS ARE fROM FATHERLESS HOMES. 80% RAPISTS ARE MOTIVATED BY DISPLACED ANGER FROM BEING IN a FATHERLESS HOME. 71% OF ALL HIGHSCHOOL DROPOUTS COME FROM FATHERLESS HOMES. 75% OF DRUG USERS aRE fROM FATHERLESS HOMES. 70% OF ALL JUVENILES IN sTATE OPERATED FACILITIES aRE FROM fATHERLESS HOMES. AND 85% OF YOUTH IN PRISON ARE FROM FATHERLESS HOMES...