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Saturday, January 5, 2013

Dead Beat Dads cause and effect

IM TIRED OF HEARING MEN DOWN THE MOTHERS OF THEIR CHILDREN WHEN I CAN aLMOST GUARANTEE THE MAJORITY OF THE MEN tHESE DAYS COULD NOT DO HER JOB ALONE IF YOU tRIED AND STILL BALANCE THE "GOOD STRESS FREE" LIVES YOU tHINK yOURE LIVING.A CHILD NEEDS MORE THAN MONEY TO BE RAISED. THAT MEANS TO SUPPORT UR CHILD PHYSICALLY, MENTALLY,EMOTIONALLY,SPIRITUALLY,SOCIALLY,FINANCIALLY,.BEING THERE FOR EVENTS,BIRTHDAYS,HOLIDAYS,LISTENING TO tHEM,NURTURING THEM,ENCOURAGING THEM,SHOWING THEM LOVE,TEACHInG THEM LESSONS SO tHEY WONT LEARN FROM tHE STREETS,GIVING WILLINGLY AND UNBEGRUNDGINGLY EVERYTHING OF YOURSELF AND THEN SOMEMORE EVEN WHEN YOU CANT FOR YOURSELF,ADDING tO tHEIR LIVES NOT tAKING FROM THEM. ALOT OF MEN fEEL tHEY aRE dOING THAT CHILD a FAVOR BY JUST STAYING OUT THE PICTURE OR BLAMING THEIR ABSCENCE IN A CHILDS LIVES ON THE MOTHERS.DEGRADE THE MOTHERS TO OTHERS WHEN IN ALL ACTUALITY YOURE TO BLAME.DONT GET ME WRONG...ALL MEN aRE NOT BAD PARENTS BUT THEIR IS BECOMING A VAST MAJORITY OF FATHERLESS HOMES THEIR ARE TOO MANY DADS WHO aRE CHOOSING TO DELIBERATELY WALK AWAY FROM tHE TABLE AND FEELS SOCIETY GIVES THEM aN AXCUSE TO FOIST RESPONSIBILITY OFF ON THE WOMEN.MOST CLAIM tO BE DOING "ALL THEY CAN" BY sENDING A CHECK eACH MONTH. SOME EVEN GO tO tHE EXTENT OF AVOIDING WORK JUST TO aVOID STATE ARREARS WHEN IN MOST CASES HAD YOU DONE RIGHT BY THE CHILD IN tHE FIRST PLACE THE SUPPORT COLLECTIONS COULDVE BEEN aVOIDED. I READ A STUDY YESTERDAY ON FATHERLESS HOMES AND WAS VERY SADDENED BY THE STATISTICS. 63% OF YOUTH SUICIDES aRE FROM FATHERLESS HOMES. 90% OF ALL HOMELESS AND RUNAWAYS ARE fROM FATHERLESS HOMES. 85% OF CHILDREN THAT EXHIBIT BEHAVIOR DISORDERS ARE fROM FATHERLESS HOMES. 80% RAPISTS ARE MOTIVATED BY DISPLACED ANGER FROM BEING IN a FATHERLESS HOME. 71% OF ALL HIGHSCHOOL DROPOUTS COME FROM FATHERLESS HOMES. 75% OF DRUG USERS aRE fROM FATHERLESS HOMES. 70% OF ALL JUVENILES IN sTATE OPERATED FACILITIES aRE FROM fATHERLESS HOMES. AND 85% OF YOUTH IN PRISON ARE FROM FATHERLESS HOMES...

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